I think in my blog today I want to talk about how a person is so focus on the wrong thing and how it will distract them from the right thing. It's like worrying about things and people who aren't worried about you, or even care for you.
I missed a due date for one of my class assignments and I'm not happy about it literally wanted to freak out but shit what I can do its behind me now and I'm pretty sure I missed out. I'm not going to be bummed about it for long because their is other opportunity to get things in on time. I'm not going to let this feeling on disappoint, ruin my life, control my life or even run my life shit happens.
It's like who do I have to prove right too when it comes to myself, I fxck up and you fxck up and if you are saying you don't you are a piece of shit (just kidding .. a little bit) But yes fxcking up its real and it happens to humans.
This is why we learn from our mistakes. As for me I was disappoint for i missed a due date for my assignment, does that mean I give up all together? No it doesn't. It just means I will look at my syllabus according or keep a reminder in my phone the due for the upcoming weeks. You know just prepare myself better, now this is the part of self compassion I want you to have for yourself.
Please give yourself grace, you may ask how do I give myself grace? Start by telling yourself I know your not in the good mood about the situation but hey it's okay .. Explain to yourself what you may had been going through, realize it's only 24 hours in a day and you can not do everything, tell yourself I love you and and I'm sorry. breathe in and breathe out.
Shit is challenging ya'll and it's not easy, that's why we just take it one day at a time and do what we can. No matter what, I'm proud of you. You got this, I've gotten this far.
My period started today.
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