Good afternoon everybody how ya'll doing? I hope everyone is good, families are well and pockets are semi full or starving. Did you buy presents this year or are you happy to be alive another day? Both? One or the other? No matter what I'm proud of you.
I'm so blessed to get my loves ones gifts this year. Have you every felt so nervous around the holidays because you don't know what to give people as gifts? You think to yourself like I know my people and any other day I know what they like but something around this holiday makes you feel like you have absolutely no idea what you should give this person as a gift.
Good, now is your opportunity to ask them what's their favorite color again, now is your opportunity to ask hey what's your favorite animal? Then BOOM a squish mellow or any type of stuff animal in their favorite color. It just doesn't have to be hard to show someone how much you love or care about them that's all I'm saying.
At this age in my life (29) what do I want for Christmas? I want better boundaries for myself and I want a hug from my maw-maw. I hope everyone gets a chance to experience the type of hug that just makes you feel loved. My maw-maw (grandma) had the best hugs from squeezing me tight and rocking me side to side, hearing her say "hey baby" every time she sees me. May my higher power keeps her soul at rest. I miss you.
Boundaries. That word itself feels uneasy yeah? Feels a little selfish? I'm learning the relationship of this word and how to use the connections to it. Every one should have at least that a boundary that it set and stone. What's a boundary for you? Comment your below.
A boundary is like a bridge in any type of relationship that helps self understand their limit of how I should be with myself and how others should respect it accordingly. The feeling a boundary being crossed may feel uncomfortable or even overwhelmed etc.. I know I'm not perfect and I know I may had crossed someone boundaries and that lead them feeling yuck! Even myself and for that I'm sorry.
By the way you know this doesn't just happened overnight, a lot of self reflection, a lot of feelings/emotions, a lot of just looking at your thoughts you know. No matter what steps you take to become a better person for you, I just want to tell you are doing a great job. Thank you being here.
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